{"id":5203,"date":"2016-10-19T09:22:22","date_gmt":"2016-10-18T20:22:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thesislink.aut.ac.nz\/?p=5203"},"modified":"2016-10-19T09:22:22","modified_gmt":"2016-10-18T20:22:22","slug":"emotional-intelligence-can-it-help-reduce-stress","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thesislink.aut.ac.nz\/?p=5203","title":{"rendered":"Emotional Intelligence! Can it help reduce stress?"},"content":{"rendered":"

If you are currently feeling stressed you may decide not to read this post but if you do then you might learn some useful tips on how to reframe your thinking and to reduce stress by getting in touch with your emotions.<\/p>\n

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These days, we are constantly bombarded with information. It\u2019s everywhere and thanks to the smartphone it is very difficult to remove yourself from its claws. In fact, we are known to process 30,000 \u2013 65,000 thoughts every day (Hanson, 2006). \u00a0We are continually responding to a diverse range of inputs and the resultant feelings. Our brain\u2019s job is to sort out all these thoughts and emotions and to decide which ones demand our instant attention and which ones can be put on the ‘back-burner’.\u00a0 Our ability to continually carry out this task is linked to our emotional self-awareness or emotional intelligence (EI). Getting in touch with our feelings helps us to behave in a more effective way and therefore can help us to reduce stress in our life.<\/p>\n

Emotional intelligence<\/a> is about being in touch with your own emotions and the emotions of others. There are three key skills you need to be effective:<\/p>\n

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  1. An awareness of your feelings and other people\u2019s feelings (empathy).<\/strong> By identifying the type of feeling you are experiencing and what triggers the resultant emotion, you can decide how you want to act. Watch body language and facial expressions for clues on how someone is feeling.<\/li>\n
  2. Understanding your emotions and using your feelings to facilitate thinking and problem solving.<\/strong> This thought process involves ‘being in the present’ and to do this we must be alert and responsive because our emotional state is constantly shifting. By being in touch with your feelings you are more in control of what happens next and if you are really truly engaged you will instinctively be able to make a more considered decision.<\/li>\n
  3. Managing your emotions so that you can regulate them and have the confidence to rearrange your emotional state. <\/strong> We need to explore the emotional underpinnings of our behaviour so that we can grow our emotional intelligence. To do this we need feedback. Supportive family and trusted colleagues are helpful in providing honest feedback thus enabling our emotional intelligence to mature.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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    Key emotional intelligence skills<\/p>\n

    So, how\u2018s your emotional state now? Perhaps it\u2019s time to pause and consider your emotional signals.\u00a0 Hansen (2006) suggests that if we look at some of our recent decision-making and list all the feelings around those decisions, including ranking the power of each of these feelings then we will become more confident in how we respond to an emotion, especially when we are stressed.<\/p>\n

    References<\/strong><\/p>\n

    Hansen, S. 2006. Engage your emotions: Being self-assured, empathic and credible<\/em>. David Bateman Ltd, Auckland, New Zealand.\u00a0 101p. The resilience institute http:\/\/resiliencei.com\/our-teams\/dr-sven-hansen\/<\/u><\/a><\/u><\/p>\n

    https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/basics\/emotional-intelligence<\/u><\/a><\/u><\/p>\n

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